pauraque: drawing of a wolf reading a book with a coffee cup (customer service wolf)
[personal profile] pauraque
A convenience store is a world of sound. From the tinkle of the door chime to the voices of TV celebrities advertising new products over the in-store cable network, to the calls of the store workers, the beeps of the bar code scanner, the rustle of customers picking up items and placing them in baskets, and the clacking of heels walking around the store. It all blends into the convenience store sound that ceaselessly caresses my eardrums.
Keiko has worked at the same convenience store her entire adult life. Outside the shop she's bewildered by unspoken social rules, but inside it, there's an explicit protocol for everything—how to stand, how to smile, how to say good morning. In this well-defined and orderly world, she is happy and fulfilled. The only problem is that as she ages into her thirties, her family increasingly pressures her to abandon that world and pursue marriage and children instead. But if all they want is for her to have a man in her life, maybe all she has to do is grab the nearest unattached man and fake it for their benefit?

I'm trying to think of the best way to describe this book. It's devastating and hopeful, hilarious and dark as fuck. The summary makes it sound like a fake-dating romp, and it does have elements of that... except the guy Keiko fake-dates is a disturbed misogynist who thinks the world is against him (we'd call him an incel, though I don't know if that maps exactly onto Japanese categories of disaffected men) and when Keiko takes him in she considers that she'll probably have to feed him at least once a day and wonders if it'll be a problem that she's never had a pet before.

Keiko is obviously autistic (though the word isn't used) and she is kind of my hero. Her deadpan literalism lays bare the absurdity of society's expectations, and while her difference makes her vulnerable, she's far from helpless. The depiction of what she goes through is so on point. I was especially struck by the character of her sister, who's the closest thing Keiko has to an ally in her family. She gives Keiko tips on how to explain why she still works at the convenience store in a way that "normal" people will accept—but when it comes down to it, what she really wants is for Keiko to change. This kind of... conditional scaffolding is familiar to me, and was one of many aspects of the book that made me feel like if I didn't laugh I was going to cry.

I have no idea what reading this book would be like if you weren't autistic. For me it felt like having a conversation in my native language after only speaking a foreign language for years and years and years.
umadoshi: (autumn - frosted leaf (verhalen))
[personal profile] umadoshi
Reading: Recently finished: Bury Our Bones in the Midnight Soil (Schwab, V.E.), Confidence (Frumkin, Rafael), and Hemlock & Silver (Kingfisher, T.).

Currently reading: Still working through Almost Everything: Notes on Hope (Lamott, Anne) and most of the way through Metal from Heaven (Clarke, August). [personal profile] scruloose and I have passed the halfway mark on listening to Network Effect, and haven't watched anything since that's occupying our "watch/listen to something together" time.

Weathering: Well, the weather sure has noticed it's November! This is not the first gray wet day we've had, and while yesterday kindly didn't rain on us when we went out erranding, it was down near the freezing mark (and had gone below overnight).

Eating: [personal profile] scruloose and I have a delicious go-to Indian place, but both it and our fallback spot too universally have onions in everything for them to be good choices for Ginny, so periodically when she and Kas are over we gamble on an Indian spot that none of us have tried. butter chicken sadness )

Week notes: November 10-16, 2025

Nov. 16th, 2025 11:15 am
soricel: (Default)
[personal profile] soricel
Teaching: Another up and down week. I'm kinda getting used to this rhythm: Mondays and Tuesdays are so bad I often find myself looking for, or at least fantasizing about, other jobs. Then Wednesdays are a little better, and Thursdays and Fridays I kinda coast into the weekend feeling generally okay. This Thursday we had a staff get-together thing after school ended...food, drink, chatting, sing-alongs led by a beloved and recently-retired theater teacher. Going into it, I wasn't feeling it at all (in part because I failed badly in my two attempts to bake something to bring), but once I got there I started feeling better, and left feeling something like affection for the little crew of colleagues who were there. Most people I talked to are feeling similarly ground down and dispirited (though I can't think of a time when any of my colleagues felt differently), and if nothing else it was kinda refreshing to know I'm not alone in what I'm feeling. 

Yesterday I also did the fourth session in my creative writing workshop series, and it went well! 

Learning: Our regular Chinese teacher had to travel back to China for some reason, so this week we met the substitute who will be our teacher for the next three-four weeks: Simon, a kinda dorky guy in his mid-twenties with a *very* different vibe than out normal teacher. The class starts at 19:00, and as soon as the clock struck that time, he announced to the mostly silent room "Time's up!" and jumped into the PPT (he also ended the class at 20:30 on the dot, which I appreciated, given that the regular teacher often goes ten or fifteen minutes over time). So far, our regular teacher has been reassuring us that at our level, we don't really need to bother with reading characters--learning pinyin is enough. But Simon scoffed at this idea, and his PPT was full of characters he expected/insisted that we know how to read. So far, no one has really spoken up or asked a question during any of our lessons, but this time one girl interrupted Simon at one point to say she was absent last week and felt like she'd missed a month of lessons--she had no idea what he was talking about. Things loosened up a little after that, and Simon eventually really started feeling himself, making jokes and sort of vibing with this one student sitting at the front of the room. For whatever reason he mostly avoided interacting with my side of the classroom, though. Anyway, all this is say that it's been a while since I've been a "student," and it's really interesting to observe a teacher from this perspective, and also to observe my own reactions to the teacher's energy, style, quirks, and the dynamics in the room. 

The somatic movement workshop this week was pretty good, and I also booked a one-on-one session with the facilitator to talk about some strategies I can use when I feel really overwhelmed or overstimulated in the classroom (and on the walk home, when I've got all sorts of nasty thoughts and feelings roiling inside me). It was a kinda intense and emotional session.

Listening: Finished season one of It Makes a Sound. Loved it, and loved sharing it with T. and seeing her get into it. Some other stuff too, but nothing much stood out. 

Reading: Still working on The Dream Hotel. Smart and bleak.

Watching: We've finally gotten to the last season of Big Bang Theory. I'm ready for it to be done. Everyone is just so mean to each other all the time. Also watched this movie Weapons, which was pretty entertainingTried watching the new Frankenstein but was not feeling it at alll. The first scene looked and felt like a video game, and we didn't have the patience for all the visual bloat in the fifteen minutes or so that followed before we turned it off. 

Writing: Kind of a quiet week on the RP front, which allowed me to write a couple short things for that unconventional formats challenge. I would've liked to write more, and to try some of the unconventional media prompts, but I feel satisfied with what I did. Also wrote a little triple drabble thing for the weekly drabble challenge community I joined a few weeks ago. Should probably start working on my Yuletide fic (I have the rough outline in my head, more or less, but now I need to start doing something with it). Also looking forward to participating in Fandomtrees for the first time. 2025 will go down as the year I really got into writing fanfiction, I guess, and these little events feel like nice ways to cap off the year.

Also tinkered a bit on some poems in preparation for the big spoken word festival next week. 

In the news/on my mind: Whatever the fuck is going on with/about to happen to Venezuela just feels so dizzyingly stupid and wrong, and again it feels like there's just nothing to do be done about it...
starandrea: (Default)
[personal profile] starandrea
2300 596 0 words to the halfway point of my novel, days to the halfway point of the month: .44 .33 .02

♥ my fox diamond painting is also approaching the halfway point, but I've been working on it since August; like life and language an exercise in process over progress

♥ plants rescued from the discard pile = 8, number of rescued plants that are likely to survive the winter = 0, however = science

♥ fall decorations deployed
wreaths: 2
garlands: 4
gourds: 13

♥ winter decorations on standby
trees: 3
lights: 5
garlands: 7

The Drifter (2025)

Nov. 14th, 2025 10:36 am
pauraque: Guybrush writing in his journal adrift on the sea in a bumper car (monkey island adrift)
[personal profile] pauraque
In this sci-fi thriller set in turn-of-the-millennium Australia, Mick Carter returns to the town he swore he'd never go back to after five years on the road. He's in town for a family funeral, but before he can make it there, he witnesses a murder perpetrated by what looks like military special ops. Then Mick himself is killed as well—only to reawaken moments before his death, getting a second chance to save himself. To figure out what's going on and the nature of his strange new power to cheat death, Mick will have to untangle a web of dark conspiracy, as well as finally facing his own past.

figure is illuminated in light streaming into a railway boxcar as Mick narrates that the man is caught like a rabbit in the headlights

I've played some of these guys' game jam entries, so I was excited for their first full-length point-and-click, and it didn't disappoint. It's a gritty, story-focused game with a great balance of pulp SF and psychological drama. The premise of being able to undo your own death (possibly at the expense of your sanity) allows the game to put you in dangerous situations without frustrating game-overs, as well as exploring themes of trauma and regret. If you could go back and do things over again, would you? Should you? As the true cause of Mick's time jumps is uncovered, the game digs into these questions in ways that are both disturbing and narratively satisfying, and that's a great combination.

cut for length )

The Drifter is on Steam and GOG for $19.99 USD. There's also a free demo on the devs' itch.io page.

Establishing a Writing Routine

Nov. 12th, 2025 07:50 pm
theemdash: (M Bored)
[personal profile] theemdash posting in [community profile] getyourwordsout
Welcome to everyone joining us for the Year-End Marathon and to everyone looking for a peek behind the curtain at GYWO. Each month volunteers post discussions about writing craft, life, and publishing. This rare public post is to give a taste of the full GYWO experience. We welcome you to interact, comment, and share your own experiences on the topic.



Establishing a Writing Routine

The idealized writing routine looks something like this:
  • make a cup of tea or coffee while getting in a creative mindset
  • sit down to free write with a fountain pen as a warmup
  • light a candle or incense to draw the muse and other creative spirits
  • put on the perfect music or silence, as needed
  • get comfortable and write 1,000 or 2,000 words in an hour or so

Mmm, sounds nice, doesn't it? That aesthetic set up is absolutely the ideal. It feels more writerly and like it’s what’s missing from our writing lives. If only we could free write with a fountain pen, light a candle, and be blessed by the muse with inspiration to write for an hour. If that, then we could be successful and productive writers.

But writing routines are not that idealized or consistent. Writing routines have to fit around real lives and incorporate personal quirks. Writing routines are not one-size-fits-all and they must be flexible so you can write on days when you’re busy, tired, or just not feeling it.

Writing routines won’t make you write, but they can help you find your way to words.


What Does a Real Writing Routine Look Like?

Probably the best way to figure out what writing routines look like is by examining an actual routine that works for someone. So, mine, heh. Let's talk about my writing routine on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays, the days when I write with a fairly steady schedule.

Three days a week, I meet with 2–3 members of my in-person writing group on Discord for a mid-day write-in.

Prep Time: My writing prep starts about an hour before when I eat lunch, take a break, and let my mind rest and switch tasks. I usually watch a TV show and play a phone game. I make sure to choose a show that won’t adversely affect my writing, specifically by making me want to watch the next episode, flail about it with a friend, or otherwise pull my thoughts away from writing.

I then check-in with the other writers who join me. This is when we confirm attendance or delays to our normal start time. Then I clean up from lunch, make tea, and open my files.

Hopefully I also have time to clean up my file from the previous writing session and get a grip on what I need to work on today, which usually includes rereading the last couple paragraphs in a scene or notes I made about what comes next. If I run out of time, I finish my prep in the first 5–10 minutes of our first sprint.

Writing: I have a desk in my home office where I write. Aside from my laptop and/or iPad (and various desk fidgets), I try to clear my desk except for my tea, phone, project notebook, and a set of colored pens. (Sometimes I clear my desk by setting things out of sight on the floor.)

I set the timer for our first sprint and get to work.

We usually write for three 20-minute sprints, giving about an hour of writing time over an hour-and-a-half period. We report what we worked on, complain about various things (including how mushy our brains are), and share pictures of our cats.

Wrap Up: By the end of the third sprint, I’m usually done writing for the day. If I’m really on a roll, I might continue long enough to finish a conversation, but if it feels like it will take longer than about 10 minutes, I jot some notes about what comes next and trust I’ll be able to pick up where I left off the next day.

At that point, writing time is done and I move on to other things I need to do with my day.


How Do You Make A Routine Happen?

The writing routine I described above happens in a group. Meeting with a group is a great way to establish a writing routine. When you make a plan to meet with others, you are more likely to show up than if you just tell yourself that you’re supposed to write at noon.

You know how I know that? Because the days of the week when I don’t write with other people, I don’t write on a schedule. I do write, but I fit it in wherever makes sense in my day, which means on a very busy day, I’m squeezing in words at the last possible second. (Not my best choice.)

Routines also happen when you take similar steps to get there. The whole “routine” part is that you have a consistent set of actions that lead you to writing. You may not need lunch + break + tea before writing, but a series of steps before writing that can become your pre-writing routine can help you get there.

You know how I know that? Most days if I follow lunch with tea, I sit down to write. My brain has associated mid-day tea with writing, so it’s become an easy way to get my brain to shift into the writing gear. (It’s also a way for me to tell my brain to shift into writing. If I want to write and have been dancing around it, if I make a cup of tea, it’s a short-cut to my brain being able to settle.)

The other Big Secret to a writing routine is figuring out what works for you. While tea and a writing group work best for me, maybe you need something different. Maybe your routine is:
  • Make Breakfast + Notebook to Freewrite
  • Take Shower + Let Hair Dry + Write 20 Minutes
  • Walk to Park + Eat Lunch + Write 15 Minutes
  • Pick Up Kids + Fix Snacks + Write While Helping with Homework
  • Everyone Else In Bed + Write Until Sleepy

Your routine can be whatever helps you get to writing, so figure out what works for you and is something you can achieve—whether that’s daily or a handful of times a week. Remember, routines can be adjusted for specific days (my MWF routine is different from other days) or you might have a routine for Busy Days that’s different from your routine for Extremely Busy Days. As long as you have your own secret to get you writing, you have a routine.

Think about what you did the last time you sat down to write, is that your writing routine? Do you think something might work better for you?
starandrea: (Default)
[personal profile] starandrea
Today's cute bilingualisms:
    “非常不judge” (I'm not judging/I get it)
    “那天晚上是给了我一种déjà vu” (that night it was like déjà vu)

Planters still on the porch: 7 3 (planters moved from porch to patio... 3)
Vacuuming to do: all of it

The Nameless Land by Kate Elliott

Nov. 11th, 2025 12:05 am
renay: photo of the milky way from new zealand on a clear night (Default)
[personal profile] renay posting in [community profile] ladybusiness
I'm pretty stoked that I finished a series I started the same year I started it. Don't look at the fact it's only two books. It still counts, okay!? Read more... )
pauraque: drawing of a wolf reading a book with a coffee cup (customer service wolf)
[personal profile] pauraque
This is a collection of short stories set in the fictional Central European country Orsinia. Most of the stories are new for the book, though a couple were published previously, and the invention of the country itself was one of Le Guin's first creative writing projects. It's basically an alt-history Czechia or Hungary, borrowing from real wars and political events; stories set in the Cold War era show Orsinia as a satellite state of the Soviet Union. Aside from the alternate history, the stories have no speculative elements.

I hadn't read this before because it didn't sound like it was up my alley. But it was next up in my chronological read of Le Guin's books, so I gave it a chance, and guess what? It wasn't up my alley!

I freely admit that a big part of the issue is that I'm the wrong audience for what she was trying to do here. A number of the stories are the sort of litfic where the entire plot is family/relationship drama and everyone is miserable, which is a genre that I find deadly dull even if Ursula Le Guin writes it. But I also don't think the prose is up to her usual standard. It's more reminiscent of her early work, and some of it openly is early work! But even the stories dated 1976 read like revisions of something pulled from the previous decade's drawer.

What surprised me the most is how generic I found the worldbuilding to be. It comes off like she wanted to write about Central Europe but didn't have the depth of knowledge to write about any specific country, so instead we have this Ruritanian stand-in that does not have any real weight to it or any distinctive qualities or culture. The stories I enjoyed the most were the ones set prior to the 20th century, which at least took me to an interesting time if not to an especially compelling place.

So yeah, this wasn't for me. Oh well, at least it was short.
starandrea: (Default)
[personal profile] starandrea
Current favorite bilingualisms:
    “我不care。” (I don't care.)
    “Same,我也是。” (Same, me too.)

Days behind on noveling: 2 1 0, not counting today *\o/*
Bulbs still to plant: all of them 210 0 *\o/*

Documentary recommendation

Nov. 7th, 2025 12:08 pm
clevermanka: default (Default)
[personal profile] clevermanka
Yesterday I watched the documentary Patrice: The Movie based on [personal profile] jesse_the_k's recommendation. I'm heartily seconding the recommendation--it was incredible. Important, touching, honest, and artistically striking. Thanks [personal profile] jesse_the_k for also sharing the acceptance speech from when it won this year's Emmy for Merit In Documentary Filmmaking.

fic title alphabet meme

Nov. 6th, 2025 12:27 pm
pauraque: bird flying (Default)
[personal profile] pauraque
Via [personal profile] octahedrite and everyone else.

Rules: How many letters of the alphabet have you used for [starting] a fic title? One fic per line, ‘A’ and 'The’ do not count for 'a’ and ’t’. Post your score out of 26 at the end, along with your total fic count.

Most of the letters I could fill had more than one option, so I went for a combination of variety of fandoms and personal favorite fics and fic titles.

A: Acted Over (Julius Caesar, Brutus/Cassius)
B: The Bridge-Keeper's Riddle (The Venture Bros, Dr. Girlfriend/Henchman 21/The Monarch)
C: Correcting an Oversight (Star Trek: Discovery, Jett Reno/Sylvia Tilly)
D: Down Where It's Wetter (The Little Mermaid, Ariel)
E: The Emperor's Favorite (Star Trek: Discovery, Michael/Mirror Philippa)
F: For a Thousand Summers (I Will Wait For You) (Star Trek: The Next Generation, Guinan/Picard)
G: Geese Resting (Always Coming Home, poem)
H: Her Person's Person (Star Trek: The Next Generation, Data/Geordi + Spot)
I: It's Just a Leap to the Left (Quantum Leap/Rocky Horror, Sam Beckett/Frank N. Furter)
J:
K:
L: Lamp for the Dead (Star Trek: The Next Generation, Ro Laren & Sito Jaxa)
M: A Memory of Warmth (She-Ra and the Princesses of Power, Light Hope/Mara)
N: No One Can Make It Alone (Kipo and the Age of Wonderbeasts, Kipo/Wolf)
O: The Origin of Love (Star Trek: Picard, Seven & Hugh)
P: Patch Notes (World of Warcraft, Thrall & Vol'jin)
Q: A Quiet Evening In (101 Dalmatians, Anita/Roger)
R: Remembrance (World of Warcraft, Koltira/Thassarian)
S: Soft and Supple When Alive (Hainish Cycle, Pao/Sutty)
T: To Heaven (Dogsbody, Kathleen & Sol)
U: Uncertain Provenance (The Little Mermaid, Ariel/Eric)
V: Void Sale (The X-Files, Marita/Krycek)
W: With Stars in Their Hair (A Little Princess, Becky/Sara)
X:
Y: The Year of the Two-Legged Table (The Guest, Choi Yoon/Kang Kil-Young/Yoon Hwa-Pyung)
Z:
Bonus: 2 months 2 days 12 hours 22 minutes till… (Quantum Leap 2022, Hannah/Ben/Addison)

22/26 if you don't count the bonus point I awarded myself for a title that begins with a number instead of a letter! I have 262 works on AO3. [personal profile] kitarella_imagines suggested that a fun extra challenge could be to fill in the letters that we're missing. It's been a minute since I wrote any fic, but I could give it a try, so...

Fic prompt request: Please suggest a word or phrase starting with J, K, X, or Z!
starandrea: (Default)
[personal profile] starandrea
Neighbor: I guess it's time to put the gardens to bed for the winter.

Geraniums being hustled in: 6
Dahlias curing in utility room: 9
Canna lilies to lift, clean, and dry: 32
Spring bulbs just arrived from Brent & Becky's: 410

Me: ...yeah, I guess.

can't relate )

Last year a kind neighbor gave me an orchid when Mimi died. "So you'll think of her every time it blooms," she said. I am not an orchid whisperer, and although I was very touched and tremendously appreciative, I was not optimistic.

Yet lo, the miracle orchid has bloomed again ♥.♥

Profile

wrote_and_writ: (Default)
wrote_and_writ

July 2025

S M T W T F S
  12345
6789101112
13141516171819
20212223242526
2728293031  

Most Popular Tags

Style Credit

Expand Cut Tags

No cut tags
Page generated Nov. 18th, 2025 03:27 pm
Powered by Dreamwidth Studios